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Listening to the Whisper instead of the Scream: Minimum vs. Maximum Edges

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We’ve all had the experience of hurting our body in some way. Zing! There goes a pulled muscle. YOWCH! Now your back hurts. There’s also been a lot of talk about how yoga can hurt you in the recent media. We all don’t enjoy being injured, but have you ever learned a specific technique for avoiding injury in your yoga practice? The following technique will help you stay healthy, consistent and strong in your practice for years to come.

 

Minimum vs. Maximum Edges: Learning to Open the Gate

What this technique entails at its core is learning to listen to your body. Sounds simple, right? Well, there are a lot of things that can happen between your calf muscle and your brain – so specific techniques are essential. If you’re like me, up until I tried this technique I totally thought I was listening to my body. It’s a way more intricate process than I thought, but with amazing rewards.

The first idea to consider is the concept of your minimum and maximum edges. When you attempt a yoga pose, we often go right away to the position of most sensation, to the position right before it’s “too much.” This is our “maximum edge”. If you went any farther, you will feel a lot of sensation, and possibly pain if you tried to hold it too long. But have you ever tried to feel your “minimum edge”? This is the very first, whisperlike sensation in the body of some kind of stretch. It’s the first awareness that you can feel that something is stretching. Instead of pushing past this first gate of awareness, take a moment to pause here. What’s it like? How do you feel? What’s the emotional and mental sensation like?

The Key to Depth in Postures

Once you take this moment, wait for the next gate to open. When sensation lessons, you know you are ready to move on. “Rather than push your way in, you will feel drawn into the pose.” (Erich Schiffman, Moving Into Stillness). When we pause in this way, it’s an invitation, which is so important for natural depth in a posture as well as natural spiritual growth. If we feel that we are being pushed or punished, instant resistance forms in both body and mind and it’s hard to get deeper on both levels. The movement is like a waterfall. The water just naturally falls farther down when resistance lessens in the rock. Try that visualization when applying this process to your practice.

Do and Don’t Do

So as you slide into the postures, there is another layer to consider. When we use this minimum-edge technique, we can be relaxed in the midst of even sometimes great effort. Do the pose, but don’t do the effort. Be easy in your mind, and glide into the pose. Manage the current of the pose, the energy it creates, but keeping your mind clear of negative thoughts about yourself and your abilities, as well as the abilities of others. Focus on observing the constant push/pull of the breath, at the tip of the nose.

Keep Tabs on Your Emotional State

The next step in this process may surprise you. Ask yourself if you are having a good time! If you aren’t enjoying yourself, then that level of pose may not be for you at this particular time. One way you can assess this is to check in with your body and see if your level of sensation (the amount of stretch and intensity you feel) is going up or down. If it’s going up, then you may be in too deep. With this technique, less is more for longer. If you can exist in a state of enjoyment within the intensity that you are feeling, no matter what the pose looks like, you are progressing emotionally and physically. Perhaps spiritually as well.

Tap Into Your Instinct

One way to keep tabs on yourself is to trust your instinct. Can you relax within the intensity and keep your focus on the breath in each moment? Then stay in the pose. If not, back up to the gate of sensation before and stay there for a while. The gate may re-open or it may not. Your responsibility is to keep your finger on the pulse of your body and know when you can relax and when you are struggling. “Yoga is an awareness process wherein you attend to those subtle shifts in sensation and feeling.” – Eric Schiffman

What do you do when intensity doesn’t decrease?

So let’s say you are hanging out in a pose and the intensity is not going away. It’s not past what you can handle, but you seem to be at a wall of sorts. This is not the time to push yourself! It’s the perfect time to respect that message. Work sensitively with that part of your being, and see if you can lure it to greater openness, tapping into the desire to go deeper.

Learn Sensation Vs. Pain

Another useful skill is to determine what is sensation and what is pain. It’s simpler than you might think. It’s all in how experience the sensation. If it’s pain,  you don’t like it and you don’t want to be there. It might be a sharp, pinching or pulling sensation and that’s definitely something we want to avoid. If it’s sensation, it is intensity that is pleasurable to you. It is most often reached slowly. As you develop a finer and finer tuned sense of the difference between pain and sensation, the gradual payoff is you will be able to enjoy and assimilate larger and larger levels of intensity.

Find Your Range

One of the last tools for this technique is using a range of sensation to determine how deep you are/want to be in a pose. If we start with a scale where 1 equals no sensation and 10 equals pain, to work with your minimum edge you want to stay in the 3-5 range. This is the “sweet spot” where your body, mind and spirit are relaxed enough to be open to change. Never push yourself into pain – the resultant tightening can cause you to clamp down harder, both physically and emotionally.

We are not pain-seekers.

We are not trying to punish ourselves with yoga. A well done strong stretch is invigorating, exhilarating and pleasurable. You are freeing yourself of tightness, constriction and pain physically, mentally and emotionally. Maybe even spiritually. Find a degree of stretch you can completely immerse yourself in.

A Common Road Block

Avoiding intensity is a common road block. We have a natural reluctance to experience pain – this is the human condition. We can have any number of reasons. Past trauma, fear, pain, ignorace – all of these can keep us in a very tight space, trying to avoid intensity. Eventually, however, that space becomes smaller and tighter, smaller and tighter, until the pain of staying there is too great and we must break open and free to become something new.

The Rewards of Learning and Practicing Your Minimum Edge

When we work with minimum edges diligently, we gently but firmly increase our resiliency on the mat was well as in the world. Our ability to deal with life’s challenges increases and our durability increases, but physically and emotionally. To be durable, strong and confident in our practice is to take those same ideals into our lives off of the mat. And isn’t that what we came to yoga for in the first place?

 

 

Bhoga Yoga: Union of “Cool Stuff” and “Peace Out, Dude”

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If you’re like a lot of yogis, you’ve never heard of bhoga before: The word in Sanskrit means “worldly pleasures.” In Light on Yoga by B.K.S. Iyengar, he says, “With mastery of the three bhandas, the yogi is at the cross-roads of his destiny. One road leads to bhoga, or the enjoyment of worldly pleasures; the other leads to Yoga or union with the Supreme Soul.”

I’ve encountered this theme many times in my yogi journeys. This is an idea that one cannot arrive at union (yoga) with enjoyment of what the world has to offer us. Maybe you’ve heard the story of the yogi in the cave for 7 years, practicing strict discipline (tapas) with a guru (teacher) and coming out the other end with amazing insight, knowledge and general yogi awesomeness. Krishnamacharya was one of these guys, and he is considered one of the patriarchs of modern yoga. So there is no doubt that this process works, but as the world becomes more and more populated and we deal with overpopulation, pollution, starvation and disease, I have one question to ask: Does following that model fulfill your responsibility as a human being?

I personally believe that the time for the yogi in the cave has come and gone. Our “cave time” comes in our own homes, as we meditate and practice every day. It’s also hard to find a guru these days – someone who will take us on as a student and show us the way, that we can live with and get to know on a daily basis. Our lives just aren’t set up that way – we all go out to make the energy exchange known as money and work, have families, children, careers etc. I believe the guru now resides within the microcosm of your own immediate internal and external universe. Ever heard this yogic joke? “Where is the guru? G, U-R-U.”

Who is the GURU?

What do I mean by that? I mean that your body is your teacher. Your relationships are your teachers. Your work is your teacher. Your community is your teacher. Your children (or absence of children) are your teachers. Your friends, family, animals, environment, home, economic status are all your teachers. Who needs a guru when gurus are all around you? Now, I am not saying that a knowledgeable teacher is not valuable – quite the opposite. However, we keep in touch with our teachers quite differently these days – classes, workshops, trainings, facebook, email, phone calls and twitter, just to name a few. It’s essential for us to stay in touch with the learning mind, the awareness that everything that happens in our lives can be a tool for spiritual growth.

How to be a Bhogi Yogi

Is it really the right decision to drop it all and go live in a cave? My answer is no – but I firmly believe that you can be a yogi and a bhogi. (I have no idea if bhogi is a term, by the way, so purists, I am taking a bit of artistic license here. I do know that Bhogi is a festival in India to the Lord Indra). So how do we put this practice of being a bhogi yogi in action? Here are my ideas below:

5. Practice Daily. I know that seems daunting, but in order to keep perspective in this amazingly complex world of ours, and maintain balance, the practice of yoga is essential. If you don’t have a daily practice and it seems daunting to think about, start simple. Do one of my 5 minute videos or meditations.

4. Never stop learning. The moment you think you know it all – is the exact moment where you will be reminded that you are human and make mistakes. If you keep a beginner mind, and stay open to the magic of your journey, you can learn the lessons you need for the next phase of your life.

3. Practice gratitude. I say “practice gratitude” because it does take practice! We can get caught up in the “I wants” and “I don’t haves” and the “I needs” so quickly. Every time you feel resentment, desire or jealousy (just to name a few) start to overwhelm your thoughts, name 3 things you are grateful for. Pause and reflect on those blessings. Lots of people keep gratitude journals. Try one!

2. Keep pressing forward, but know when you need to rest. There are times of forward and upward moving energy in our lives, and times of downward and backward moving energy. This is also called yin and yang. Through your practice, you will begin to develop a highly-tuned awareness to when you need to step forward and when to let go.

1. Live with kindness and compassion. Understand that all beings are struggling with their own existence, trying to find their own route to happiness. Practice compassion for all beings in your lifestyle, food and financial decisions. Try making your decisions at the grocery store based on what serves you and the planet well. For example, maybe you can switch to cloth napkins instead of paper towels. One easy switch to make!

How do you make being a bhogi yogi work in your life? Comment and let me know here!

 

Yoga Quickie: Heart Pumping Cardio Yoga Series – 5 minutes!

Hey All! Here is my first Yoga Quickie – It’s a quick 5 minute cardio series to energized your body, mind and heart! Spend 5 minutes and change your world!

 

 

 

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Radical Gratitude: A Yoga Warrior’s Guide to Life

G.I. Joe knows yoga.

So if there is one theme that is posted about over and over and over again in yoga blogs, it’s gratitude. Be grateful for this, be grateful for that and everything will go well in your life. But guess what? Just being grateful in your head doesn’t cut it folks. I’m here to talk about radical gratitude. What is radical gratitude mean? It means being grateful for every piece of grit life throws your way, as well as all the nice, pleasurable stuff. Have you ever tried being grateful for every unpleasant thing that happens to you? What if you tried that today? Here are 5 tips to help you be a yoga warrior:

A true warrior!!!

5. Be grateful for the ability to practice every day. And DO IT. Just get to the mat and be grateful that you can get there. So many people don’t have the ability, awareness or introduction to the beautifully life-enhancing practice of yoga. You do!! So get on the mat, no matter how you feel and do something. Be grateful for the aches and pains, as well as the yummy, delicous, “oh this is my favorite pose” feeling. (Note: And TRY the hard poses for you every day. If you try them once a day, eventually they won’t be hard any more!)

4. Keep asking yourself if you are being grateful in each moment. We want to not be grateful. We want to complain and say it’s her/his/its fault for the way things are going. The truth is, that never helps anyone do anything or be anything they want to be. It’s okay to have that thought, but bust right through it and do something else with that energy. Use it as fuel for the fire in your soul to achieve your deepest desires and dreams.

3. Do your best, forget the rest. When you fumble and fall (which we all do), forget it. Move on. Don’t look back to the past, you aren’t going that way. ‘Nuff said.

2. Have fun with the hard stuff. When everything seems to be so hard and you just can’t feel grateful for anything, find a way to play. Be soft within the structured determination of your practice of gratitude. Allow yourself to feel your feelings, but don’t be overtaken by them. You are in control of your life.

This chick looks like she does yoga.

1. Take FULL responsibility for everything that happens to you. And I mean everything. Even if it feels horrible. Ask yourself – how can I learn from this to make sure I don’t make the same mistake twice? Now, if you are thinking, whoa, that is totally unfair, there are things that happen to me that I can’t help. Sure, there are some things that happen to us that are beyond our immediate control – take the recent economy as an example. You and I didn’t make Wall street crash – but the action we can take at home is to be fiscally responsible, protect our finances, learn about smart financing and teach others in our community to be so as well. That is taking responsibility with what is called your “locus of control.” Taking to hand everything you CAN affect does wonders for self-confidence, feelings of security and personal growth. And to do it with an attitude of gratitude? Now that’s radical, dude!

Have a great practice!

Warmly,

Anna

7 Best Ways to Savor Your Yoga Practice

7. Honor your practice. Take the time for your practice, and make it sacred for yourself. This means honoring your commitment to do the practice every day, no matter what. It also means planning your practice into your day. If you don’t have a plan, it’s not going to happen. Make it your ritual. The reason that yogis say to practice in the morning is not because it’s some magic time of day, it’s because you have a better chance of getting it done if you aren’t already in the swing of things during your day.

6. Engage all your senses. When you are on your mat, be on your mat. We can easily get to the mat and spend the whole time thinking about what we have to do that day, or whatever current drama is playing around in our mind. Start by noticing everything that is touching your mat, in each pose. How does it feel to have your feet, hands, belly, or back touch the mat? What can you hear? What do you see? What do you smell? Do you taste your morning coffee or tea still or is there an absence of taste?

5. Be mindful of what kind of practice your body needs in every moment. Not every practice is for every body, every day. We can develop a good intuition about what our body needs by consistently practicing checking in during practice. This is a very helpful skill for your practice but also it is GREAT for when you step off the mat. Did you hydrate well today? Did you eat nurturing foods? Did you skip meals because your schedule got too busy? We have all been there, but noticing when we fall out of balance, on and off the mat, is an important practice for a long, healthy life.

4. Reflect on your practice. Is it meeting your long term goals or needs? Your short term goals? What do you want out of your practice? There are so many styles and ways to approach mindfulness, it’s up to you to go to the “Awareness Grocery Store” and pick out the style you want to try next. Keep trying things until you find something that works really well for you and your needs. If you are unsure, then ask a teacher or attend a workshop that will introduce you to a new style. If you want something personalized, then try my Therapeutic Home Study Program. You can receive a personalized DVD that will be tailored exactly to your needs of body, mind and spirit.

3. Practice slowly. Even if you are in a vinyasa flow class, you can practice slowly and mindfully. Rushing through any practice is a sure recipe for injury, discouragement and obstacles to a daily practice. Holding poses for longer not only increases the calories  you are burning, but also gives you the time to “marinate” in a pose, truly start to understand the subtleties and increase your skill.

2. Practice every day. There is no way to fully understand your body without a practice that is at least 5-6 days a week. Intermittment practice is helpful, no doubt, but to gain the discipline, mentally and physically, of a daily practice brings benefits you can only dream of right now. First, you will be presented with lots of things you have been ignoring, physically, mentally and spiritually, but eventually things will even out, you will get on a stable, sustainable path where you can be successful and happy.

1. Take your practice off the mat into your everyday life. Each moment is an opportunity to practice one of the yamas and niyamas, the ethics of yoga. All of these lessons will bear fruit in your every day life if you consistently practice them on the mat. You won’t be able to help all of the lessons coming with you into your life, if you listen to your body, mind and spirit each day on the mat.